I am afraid signing up for a dating site is an admission that I could not meet a girl and attract her on my own.
However, plenty of people have trouble meeting that special someone.
Secondly, like I just wrote, I'm looking for a storybook meeting and relationship.
Years ago there was a stigma with meeting people on dating sites.
These days, with the rise of social networking, it's more accepted.
Outside of the regular dating sites, one could argue that adding a friend on Facebook is grounds for online dating-especially if you're like me and friend adding is as important as getting a phone number. I have no issues with people who have joined them-my cousin met his wife on a dating site.
I have my reasons for not signing up: First of all, I don't want extra help to meet someone.
But perhaps after a few dates that grow out of an online setup, that story happens.
Finally, even though people are on the site to date, what are their ultimate intentions?Are most people on dating sites looking for something serious? I'm not sure how serious I want to be at this point.So there's an argument from both sides, and maybe I'll get over my reluctance to join a dating site.When used correctly, dating sites are an additional source for meeting people. Here are some reasons people join dating sites: This is a classic reason for joining a dating site.Some people are so busy with work or other life responsibilities that there is simply no time to go out and meet people/date. He's a hardcore lawyer (while I'm sleeping until noon, he's prosecuting people for murder) and he had to join a dating site as a tool to help out with that part of his life. She pulled me in to her office and told me she had joined a dating site, and it felt like a landmark moment in her life.I asked her what motivated her to sign up for a dating site and she replied: "I have no game."So, why not get some kind of agent to help, I suppose?