You may be able to identify such women by their working hours or the fact that they say they don’t work, yet still had the cash to sign up for a premium membership.Be aware that many of these girls are serial daters, and probably have a man in every port, so to speak.Ladies of the night usually have a reasonable command of English (or barglish as it’s called) yet no education past the age of 15 to justify it.
Whether this is because Thai women are increasing in popularity or whether they are becoming increasingly web savvy isn’t clear.
But one thing is for sure, you should be as cautious about the online dating process in Thailand as you would in your own country, and you should make sure you’re well informed before you start out – not just about the types of women you’re likely to come across, but also the size of membership, cost and service of each site. I’ve met many western guys who met their partner on Thai dating sites, and highly recommend this avenue over nightclubs, bars and introductions, which often turn into a nightmare.
I also know many well-educated, professional Thai women active on these sites.
It’s not just those looking for a relationship that can benefit from Thai dating sites, either.
Many men travelling on business or coming for a holiday in the region find a date for their visit through this channel.
These rules apply to dating sites across the board.It’s common sense, but worth reminding yourself all the same, before you get carried away with the thousands of potential partners you’re about to be viewing. Engage with the person you’re interested in over a good month or two before arranging a meet.This gives you time to be confident that they are who they say they are. Never send money to someone you have never met, no matter the excuse they give.There are scammers in every country, and Thailand is no exception. Don’t give out your home phone number or address until you have met the person, or at least Skyped and has a face-to-face conversation.Like any other single woman, many bar girls – both those having sex for money and those solely working in the entertainment industry as a dancer or hostess – are looking for a partner.So yes, it is likely you’ll come across such women on Thai dating sites.