Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus, who..himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant.” Be very careful about physical touch I would also encourage you to read through an article I’ve written that contains Guidelines for Sexual Purity.
He wants you to draw from the reservoir of a solid Christian life, with strong personal accountability to godly men, and from that reservoir to stand strong for Jesus.
Satan, on the other hand, wants to mess you up with pride, sexual impurity and every other thing he can do to discredit your testimony for Christ and derail you from serving Him, and from one day having a godly marriage.
Plan ahead Gaps always get filled, often with temptations to sexual impurity.
The intentional man repeatedly and constantly goes first and takes on all of the risk of rejection.
He always lets the girl know where he stands so she feels secure and isn’t left guessing.
(On the other hand, don’t weird her out by talking about marriage on the first date.) I agree.Male leadership wasn’t the result of the Fall, but of creation (as Genesis implies and Paul makes clear in 1 Timothy 2). Clean your act up today, not "when" The lie is that once you find the right girl, all your problems will go away—you just need the right motivation, right? If Jesus isn’t motivation enough to grow in maturity and pursue godliness, then you are not ready to pursue a woman. Joshua 1:8 says, “This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it.” Every man needs to realize that he will only be worth following if he follows God.Know what you’re doing and either stick with the plan or go somewhere safe, where you’re in the sight of others (particularly others who respect the need for purity).You can still have a private conversation even in a room full of people.But their presence will encourage you to focus on the conversation rather than on temptation to impurity.Guard her heart Philippians 2:3-7 says, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.